dont get me wrong, i do not intend to change anyone's believing n their practise in life. im just saying what i feel from my observations.

sometimes i'm quite thrown back by the fact that some people just refused to be found. regardless of sms nor calls to their handphone, they just refuse to pick up n even when they see the misscalls n smses, they wont be responding to it.

no matter how serious or urgent the purpose of the act of approaching them would be.

as some of the reasons i gathered from my friends, the reason are pretty simple :
1. those calls or smses are from people they do not treasure. i.e.salesmans or some friends that they do not even consider friends; or boss / from the office, ha ha.

2. they think that minding their own business is far more important than minding your matters - if i want your attention, i will get to u, i do not necessarily need to know of your matter *snap fingers*

3. serious matter? can it be more important than ME AND MY (BOYFREN / GIRLFREN)? sorry my world is right now revolving around my spouse, any other people can just stop bugging me.

not that im saying im very caring or what (in fact i do not really care for other people as well, ha ha). but i will try my best to call back or reply to sms if someone has already made the initative to look for me.

becoz i believe that anything could happen.

i think many ppl who do not really realise the importance of attending to calls or smses are bcoz they're living in a very happy and contented life that they have not lost anyone important yet.

on the day i lost my father, imagine if i had not picked up the call from my family, or i had not responded to them even after i saw the misscall, i wouldnt have known that my father has already deceased; n yet ppl thought nothing as bizarre as that will be happening to them.

just be reminded that REALLY, anything can happen. n if u do not want any regrets in your life, pls be more attentive to the ppl around u. of coz many ppl will counter this saying 'i dont believe in regrets'.

WELL, i wish u all the best n the best in life if u choose to still be so ignorant.

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